a deep questions meme jacked from DancingWithDreams --1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Looking into someone's eyes when I'm conveying my feelings xD omg... idk, isn't it some kind of instinctive thing to avoid eye contact? It takes a lot of courage to admit feelings, so I guess that could be why I tend to avoid it, wear my shades, or glance away every now and then. Looking at someone else when they're talking is easy. 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
The last time I felt genuine rage was during a dream actually. Of course I don't feel the same way, but at the time in that dream my brother had done something to piss me off and I was mad. Really mad.3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
I call my dad to tell him the situation. Why him as opposed to my mom? cuz my mom can't shut up when she's on the phone xD plus they'd probably be together in the same room anyways.
4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
Hmm... I've always kinda believed that honesty is/was the best policy. In this situation I think I'd tell my family and friends the truth and then rally around them to make that last month one hell of a hurrah. Would I be afraid? To be honest... maybe a little, but this is dependent on how old I am and what I'm dying from. 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
Now this is an interesting dilemma... since I have a foot in each door here. After all... what is one without the other? I suppose if we're strictly only picking one then I'd pick trust. 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
You know what? even though I'm a cat person, I'm a very strong swimmer I bet I could save the dog and still get to work. 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
Once trust is lost it's hard to build back up. Love on the other hand is a resilient essence and can be brought back. 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
Depends honestly on if I like them or not xD
I've been confessed to a couple times and my polite "no" response is usually the same. "I appreciate it but I'm just not interested in that kind of thing right now." tho one time in middle school I had to explain that my parents wouldn't let me date till high school lol
However! If I like them back then I'd smirk like an idiot and ask "what took them so long" (or something less snarky) and hug them, then reveal that I liked them too. 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
Monsieur Hodgins was a good man, but it's not my place to bring him back for an hour. He was suffering from depression and missed his late wife dearly. It would be cruel for me to separate the two of them again, even if it was only for an hour. 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
hell yeah~! I'd totally get along with myself! 11. Does love = sex?
lol nooooo. While they're often joined together but they're definitely not the same thing. Some people have sex without love, and some people love without having sex. silly12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
This would depend on my current situation. If I also had a family to support I might offer my boss to cut pay so my coworker could work, otherwise...13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
hmmm.... Probably Ryan? I honestly don't remember (I know it's sad) but it's been done in person and in text. For whatever reason... I didn't feel nervous at all~ on the contrary, I felt totally relaxed and comfortable. 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
telling someone you don't love them sounds ridiculously hard.15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
hmm... the ability "to be" and I don't mean existing. living and existing are two different things. 'Existing' and just sitting around motionless like a vegetable is almost worse than death to me. No... If I couldn't move around, speak, taste, and experience life, then there's little reason to exist at all. 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
I tell my best friends I love them. Sure it's not 'romantic love' but their friendship is incredibly important to me, and they're worth it. 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
I wouldn't change a thing, cuz like Jess mentioned in her meme, that little change could have a butterfly effect and ruin the wonderful things that have happened recently. 18. Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
u v u Ryan my boi~ cuz I feel comfortable around him and we could play video games and stuff during the rainstorm and that'd be cool~19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
Since idk how to give CPR than I would not21.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
Wtf kind of question is this!? Of course I would have to save Ajee in the end but killing a baby?! This is 2015 we don't sacrifice virgins anymore! 22. Are you old fashioned?
In some ways I am~ I don't wear make up (except for special occasions,) no sex on the first date, I prefer politeness... etc... there are just certain ideals that seem to have gone out of style that I hold on to. But do I dress like an old lady? nah
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
I think I've been nice a lot recently. I've added "Uber" to my list of adjectives because of all the times I've been driving people (my friends) around places. In fact.... next week I'm driving Nikita to school cuz he needs a ride. 24.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
True love~ because... it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. 25.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
I'd wish for happiness and the ability to live freely~
If you're happy and open minded then nothing will rub you the wrong way, you'll just roll and find a better place.